Ever wonder why he/she turns their phone off at night or always has their phone on silent when they are around you? Realistically he/she is hiding something, and that’s either their “main piece” or their “side piece”. I’m aware that there are like hmmm… TWO people in america who turns their phone off at night or constantly has their phone on silent. In this 2 out of a trillion case you that it’s very rare.
In the a world of many cheating hearts and lies, how do you know when you are the “other” man/woman? To some the signs appear to be so much clearer than to others. Then sometimes we see the signs but just want to ignore them. Here are signs that I think should say “HELLO GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND! YOU AIN’T THE ONLY ONE!!! HE/SHE HAS A COUPLE OR A FEW!”
1. The constant turning off of the cellular device when you are either together or not together. He/ she could be doing this for many reasons. These reasons being they don’t want you the “side piece” or the “main piece to interrupt the time that they are sharing with the other. Who wants to wake up to their main/side piece fussing about “Who is he or who is she?!” In their eyes turning the cellular device off is being “sneaky”. Well it’s not! All you are doing is making the other person suspicious. *Sidenote: Turning off the cellular device is the oldest trick in the book please retire it.
2. Ask yourself “Does his/her story add up?” If you have to think long and hard on that question… YOU’RE THE OTHER MAN/WOMAN. If he/she is telling you one thing one breath then telling you another in that same breath, 9 times out of 10 they are lying. Something is going on and questions need to be asked! People are too scared to ask questions these days. Let it be me and I feel like there is a discrepancy in your story… I’m calling you out on it! But that’s just me.
3. With the new technology these days and millions of apps that you can download, cellphone users have discovered what we call blacklisting. If you ever owned an android powered cellular device you should know about this. If not then Ooops my bad, I guess I gave you cheaters another way to “sneak”. Blacklisting is when you block a persons calls. When they call the call goes straight to voicemail. However, (insert chuckle) the call still appears in your call log. The phone never rings. If you call and this happens, and the person calls back, and says “Did you just call me?” Ask questions. i.e. “How do you know I called if the phone went straight to voicemail?” *Super side eye* Now there could be two reasons why you are blacklisted. 1. Because the person is mad at you and don’t want to talk to you or 2. Because they are out being “sneaky” but don’t want to turn their cellular device off because they are expecting calls, and don’t want to take yours. Since we are talking about being the other man/woman I choose #2 for 500 Alex!
If the signs go past the 3 listed above and you are still questioning whether or not you are the other man/woman, you’re a lost cause. I’m sure at this point someone is screaming at you “YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE! HE/SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU!” Please listen to them. I know at times that thing called love AND lust can pull those blinders down on us, and we don’t see things clear like we normally would. Know that the people or person screaming at you and slapping you around, hoping you will snap out of it, is only doing it because they love and care about you. If they didn’t care they wouldn’t say a thing. So save yourself from the other man/woman embarrassment and make it known NIGGA/CHIC you busted!
Signed, The Word Vixen
